COURTESY WORLDWIDE

Dear readers, taking note of the heading, one would hope that courtesy is alive and well! This week, we travel to several countries to explore if and how it manifests.

Cultural comparisons are challenging due to mass migrations and the deep respect many people hold for their countries.

However, for some, the following observations might be both insightful and entertaining, even eliciting a few chuckles!

THAILAND

Distinct from the West, Thailand embodies the warmth of the “Wai”—a gesture where hands are clasped together in a prayer-like position. This gesture promotes harmony and avoids conflict, especially in conversations. Such actions create a welcoming atmosphere.

Saying “no” directly is considered harsh; instead, phrases like “we shall see” or “we’ll consider” are preferred, with voices kept calm and unraised.

RWANDA

In Africa, courtesy often intertwines with tradition. In Rwanda, the concept of “Ubuntu” emphasizes respect, warmth, and genuine interest in others. It fosters strong community ties.

Tribal customs may influence practices, such as receiving items with both palms cupped together, symbolizing respect and connection. Another noteworthy aspect is the culture of inclusion, which inspires warm and welcoming gestures.

JAPAN

The Japanese practice the art of “Omotenashi”, which includes bowing rituals, impeccable hospitality, and profound respect for elders.

Culturally, it is considered improper to eat while walking or to monopolize seats on public transport. These practices reflect their deep-seated courtesy and discipline.

AUSTRIA

Although Austrian German shares similarities with standard German, it is less guttural and slightly more refined. Formality is key: addressing others as Herr (for men) or Frau (for women) is customary.

Handshakes are standard before initiating conversations, and interrupting others is seen as extremely impolite.

ENGLAND

While the British have a reputation for complaining, their chivalry remains intact. It is often said that the British are quick to apologize and maintain traditions such as “Ladies first.”

Do the Brits welcome others? This is harder to assess given the recent influx of migrants arriving on their shores. These days, the mix of cultures may challenge traditional norms, and some tourists find the British to be short-tempered.

REPUBLIC OF SOUTH AFRICA

South Africa is known as one of the hardest-working yet unhappiest countries globally.

The transition from the formalities of apartheid to racial freedom has brought about significant societal changes. Increasing numbers of people are studying African languages, which helps bridge divides and fosters greater unity.

LINGUA FRANCA

Many countries have adopted Lingua Franca—a common trade language historically composed of Spanish, Italian, French, Greek, and Arabic. In modern times, English has become the dominant global language, reflected in literature, poetry, advertising, and the film industry. Hollywood, in particular, plays a major role in fueling this dominance, captivating audiences worldwide.

CONCLUSION

Reciprocal courtesy and respect for one another, coupled with adherence to democratic laws, remain the foundation of harmonious global citizenship